SOAPBOX of the week: find your voice!

Posted on February 1, 2010 by admin

Some things are worth repeeating…especially when you realize time ain’t moving any slower, my friends.

“Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.

Are you upset with your sweetheart? Unsatisfied with your raise? Bearing physical pain? Worried about something? Suffering from depression or feeling ignored? Yet you say “I’m fine” and sweep your emotions under the rug. We’re not dealing with burnt toast, folks! The experiences and issues that weave the threads of your life together warrant both attention and discussion. What’s worse…many of you keep silent the good stuff as well. If you’ve got a brilliant idea; can help out a situation, or love someone with all of your heart…well, SPEAK ON, DEAR FRIEND! We spend half of our lives biting our tongues when we should speak up and share ourselves! Chat up your truth –the connection you make will bring solution, satisfaction and peace of mind.

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SOAPBOX of the week: champion your cause

Posted on January 25, 2010 by admin

“Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim.” – Nora Ephron, director, author and screenwriter

Perhaps it’s because your numbered days seem to race by with haste, fulfilling the agenda of Father Time. Or, maybe because your roster of fumbles and failures rivals your collection of shining moments and successes. Regardless which perceived doom or disgrace you choose to pick a fight with, some of you ultimately succumb to the stealthy seep of cynicism, and allow it to kill off your once-unshakable vision of the world as your proverbial oyster. As if one experience too many tilted the scale, and the game of life shifted the odds against you …or so you think. Sound familiar? Sound…overly dramatic? Well, perhaps you owe it to yourself to reexamine that turning point that buried your self-esteem and self-preserving passion for enduring the risk for the reward. Sure you may not be able to revise the results, but you can always change your defeated perspective to pave the way for future-perfect positivity. Remember: the whole world can’t be against you! Folks, when you choose to accept your history without judgment and punishment, you in turn resuscitate your current reality and free yourself from falling prey to pessimism again. Crown yourself for surviving the past-tense and you’ll thrive as the knight in shining armor for all your days to come.

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SOAPBOX of the week: rest, my friends

Posted on December 28, 2009 by admin

“Sometimes the most urgent and vital thing you can possibly do is take a complete rest.” – Ashleigh Brilliant, author and cartoonist

…And so, as it is the end of the year, folks, I am taking some rest from pursuing this weekly creative writing episode…and letting it, instead, have forty winks. Not to worry, next Monday will knock on my door and hand me yet another ditty to share. Sooo, ’til then, cheers to this time of rest for all of you. Let it swaddle you in ease and comfort, for the hustle and bustle of the birth of 2010 is just around the corner! – kd

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SOAPBOX of the week: heartless smear vs. honored silence

Posted on December 14, 2009 by admin

“Airing one’s dirty linen never makes for a masterpiece.” – Francois Truffaut, filmmaker

A week scarcely goes by that our ears and eyes are bombarded by yet another public confession of transgression. Tabloids showcase a celeb’s rehab trip; while a breaking news update places a politician’s pilfering habits and abusive antics in the limelight. Closer to home, water cooler gossip reveals coworkers’ drinking problems; while congregations are abuzz over another pastor’s adulterous escapades. Indeed in each truth-bearing catharsis, the convicted character’s “come to Jesus” moment for a cardinal sin is due acknowledgment – especially when disclosed to family and friends in aim of accountability and atonement. But broadcasted spillage, be it for publicity or simply the sake of a cleansed conscience, rarely paints a pretty picture; and once it’s “out there”, one can never take it back. Along with the ensuing disturbance for victim and innocent bystander alike, the evidence of offence floats forever in one’s surroundings and negatively impacts all who swim by. Point being: your own divulgence shouldn’t become another’s devastation. Society’s fishbowl may righteously reveal all in the end, but privacy ain’t a four-letter word. If anything, it’s a work of art to be admired.

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SOAPBOX of the week: immeasurable impact

Posted on December 7, 2009 by admin

“Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does.” – William James, philosopher and psychologist

It’s the sign that reads “population 5,861”. The reason for a weight limit on an elevator. How a candidate wins a neck-in-neck running. The latest entry in the Guinness Book of World Records. Countless scenarios happening every second of every day across the globe that make the very same simple point: every life counts. That last child born, extra pound of body weight, final vote cast, and simultaneous snow angel number 15,851 definitely counts. But more than that, folks, every life matters. Period. Now, most of us shamefully let this awesome truth go in one ear and out the other…until it involves us, personally. Right? When it feels like perhaps you might not be counted …or that you might not seem to matter. Ah, then you sit at attention, flail your arms, and cause a stink! Well, truth be told, many-a-time you are not the most important number in the equation. But just because you’re not gracing the top of everyone’s VIP lists, doesn’t mean you go unnoticed or aren’t needed. Folks, you’ll never know just how your existence, let alone daily actions, as mundane or massive as they may be, make a difference. So, take good ole Shakespeare’s words to heart: all the world is indeed a stage. Watch your character and act like what you do ripples lifetimes of impact. Because it does.

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SOAPBOX of the week: take flight in faith

Posted on November 30, 2009 by admin

“Throw your heart over the bar and your body will follow.” – Bob Mathias, Olympic decathlete and congressman

Ask any wide-eyed, newbie entrepreneur to explain what it’s like to sit at the helm of their little enterprises, and all too many will confess that they’re flying by the seat of their pants. Every day, with scribbled gameplan and burning checkbook in hand, they bring their keeps-me-up-at-night dream of an idea to life …and probably haven’t slept again since! Truth be told, at some point in time, their emotions got the best of them, and the unyielding anticipation of “what if” ignited a fire so awesome, nothing could hold ‘em back! Even though the plans, people and products were still a future spreadsheet or fate-driven surprise, their hearts sang of faith and promise of possibilities, and their entire being just couldn’t resist. And the following and glorious flying ensued, proving yet again that that passionate plea in your heart may be all it takes to change the very course of your whole life. So, whatever that THING is for you, folks, that you just can’t ignore… listen to it; trust in it; and then leap for it! And wholeheartedly embrace what follows!

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SOAPBOX of the week: champion your cause

SOAPBOX of the week: rest, my friends

SOAPBOX of the week: heartless smear vs. honored silence

SOAPBOX of the week: immeasurable impact

SOAPBOX of the week: take flight in faith