SOAPBOX® mini-motivation: homeless or hopeless?

Posted on November 11, 2012 by admin

“We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” ~ Mother Teresa, nun, peaceful missionary & worldwide civil servant

What a day. What a physically, mentally and spiritually exhausting, yet magically fulfilling and hope-inspiring day. As I type before heading to sleep, the glistening spotlight in my mind still shines on the few hours spent sharing infectious laughter, thought-provoking conversation, and heart-wrenching tear-filled stories with some hundred people or so this late morning. Know that I write this not to showcase my meager charitable efforts, but to share a monumental a-ha in my own mind.

If I could have watched from afar I would have witnessed myself as an outsider literally melting into a crowd; the steadfast and stoic force field dissolving to morph complete strangers into a simple crowd of God’s children. Another trip to a shelter…like a myriad others… where the ultimate goals for its countless, seemingly nameless patrons are never met…and perhaps never will be. “End homelessness” is still the proud banner on the building’s marquis, but most who gather show signs of no end in sight. Just as the “haves” toe the precarious line of accepting the homeless situation as a problem that just cannot be solved, the “have-nots” stand in mirror reflection. I know that even if I visited their grounds every single day with food, clothing, and opportunity for shelter …not even a dent would be made. For the real problem isn’t lack of these wish-list items. The real problem is buried deep within the souls of the homeless. No matter what choices they have made to land them in their current collective circumstances, the destruction and rubble lay heavy in their body, minds and spirits. They live under the weight of overpowering feelings of being unwanted, unloved, uncared, insignificant, incapable, unworthy, unequal, and inhuman, and they wear a badge of hopelessness. No obligatory holiday drive or food drop-off will ever remedy their pain, let alone stop the perpetuation of thousands more joining their disheveled, disjointed crowds. Indeed, I believe many who fall into the demise of homelessness and succumb to its evil accompanying activities can choose to change their habits and perhaps become the very light at the end of their tunnels.

But society has a responsibility as well. As individuals we are each specially gifted to help, and perhaps a resolution lies in truly owning up to the impact we can have on future generations. We have the opportunity each and every day to turn strangers into peers through words and actions that spread nothing but love and compassion. After all, you never know, the person who stands inches from you might be just inches from one last choice that would lead to their own homelessness. And what if the right word or action from you were to create a miraculous intervention?

Perhaps we cannot end homelessness in our own lifetimes, folks. But I’m willing to bet that if we all worked on ending hopelessness, the problem might fix itself.

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SOAPBOX® mini-motivation: pageant or poetry

Posted on October 19, 2012 by admin

“Climb the mountain not to plant your flag, but to embrace the challenge, enjoy the air and behold the view. Climb it so you can see the world, not so the world can see you.” ~ David McCullough, modern-day English teacher

Life is not a pageant. And yet we unabashedly tuck this gloriously divine journey and spontaneously shared experience into a flippant 4-letter word and dress it up like a calamatied, desperate, purpose-less reality star who ultimately exploits and extinguishes her own value. Life is not charading parade of nipped and tucked excuses of beauty…of average activities reupholstered to elicit wooing and swooning in hopes of earning awards no more valuable or necessary than a 14 carat gold tombstone. Life is not a calling to exhibit one’s presumed importance for awe’s sake of our 7 billion relatives. For life is LIFE. It’s like light and air and thoughts and bodies… it’s just there. And we all have IT… for some time. And no one’s is more important. For we are all but a sum of parts playing on a gameboard on an unpretentious planet… and when one piece gets taken away, the game still goes on.

And so, perhaps life is like a poetry slam, or so I humbly reflect. A dedicated effort of an affected orator striving to breathe life into the written word with emphatic, emoting performance that eggs both speaker and audience to tug the air for more oxygen and the room for more space and actions for more meaning. Life is emulated by the aerobic effort required by this act of igniting possibilities into a kinetic energy that spills on and rips through every thread of those in the same circling space. And yet the expansion of meaning in the mutterings from muted paper are mere reflections of the challenges of the poet himself. Though he stands upon a stage, he knows his spectators ironically watch themselves shift under influence, and he is without need of approval. For the poet alone strives to make it to the top of a metaphorical mountain…but for the experience alone of seeing a new view revealed upon his last breath into the last particle of punctuation. Breath to thoughts to words to actions to breath again… and then another upward hike to enlightenment. Unstaged life unfolding. ~ KD

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SOAPBOX® mini-motivation: grasping simplicity

Posted on August 16, 2012 by admin

“Hold on to what is good, even if it’s a handful of earth. Hold on to what you believe, even if it’s a tree that stands by itself. Hold on to what you must do, even if it’s a long way from here. Hold on to your life, even if it’s easier to let go. Hold on to my hand, even if I’ll be gone away from you.” ~ Pueblo Indian prayer

Sometimes I catch myself shaking my head in regret, in upset, in despair, in confusion, and in near hopelessness… at both the thought and the sight of just how far we, as a society, have strayed from the simple things life has to offer. Thankfully, I can bow my head in prayer, full of hope and faith that there is someone else, somewhere else thinking and seeing the same view… just one more person choosing less over more, good over perfect, truth over myth, diligence over idleness, trust over worry, and love over fear. Choosing a purpose-driven life sustained by simplicity. ~ KD

SOAPBOX® mini-motivation: the Olympic spirit

Posted on July 30, 2012 by admin

“The fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.” ~ Paul, Galatians 5:18

Step back and consider what I am about to boldly propose: The Olympic Games Are Not About The Sports.

And if that statement were absolutely true, then what do all these athletes, competitions, awards, presentations, stories and histories represent? Perhaps, the answer is as simple as one word: SPIRIT.

The media mesmerizes with the phrase “Olympic spirit” yet fails to define it …only to don all elite competitors with virtual crowns for us commoners to bow to. Alas, the media fumbles and fails to truly uplift beyond its prescribed two weeks of showcasing. And upsettingly does such every four years. Oh, but not an ounce of hope can be lost! For all citizens of all nations can pick up the torch and pass it to one another…each and every day, sharing the hope that we all have a spirit alive and glowing within us…driving us to breathe and strive and do and love and try and give and triumph. Remember that as you gaze in awe of these people we call “athletes”…for they are just like you and me.

That said, though, in truth I ask you: Do you have the fruit of the spirit within you?

…To wear your heart on your sleeve. To train relentlessly for your lifelong goals. To compete with every shred of your strength and every drop of your soul. To stand tall and show utmost respect for those greater than you. To face life’s adversities and obstacle courses with unwavering optimism. To trust that you indeed have a gift for excellence. To represent with pride all that your family, friends, and community planted in you. To triumph over life’s tragedies and agonies. To join hands and hearts with rivals and friends alike. To call a truce to your waging battles. To open your mind to all that is different to you and all who are different from you. To celebrate your achievements and share the rewards. To sacrifice whatever it takes for those who cannot. To walk in faith for faith’s sake. To love something so much that, without it, breathing would be difficult. To experience and appreciate the simple yet gloriously powerful feeling of joy that is feverishly spread when people come together for a common cause… that being, to honor the brilliance of the human spirit. ~ KD

Successories Launches New Products Featuring Kimberlie Dykeman’s Stamp of Approval!

Posted on July 26, 2012 by admin

Just this past March Kimberlie Dykeman teamed up with the marketplace motivational giant Successories to inspire the masses. Showcasing Kimberlie’s gift for infusing vignettes with jolts of poignant wisdom, Successories began adding another layer to its offerings of bringing perspective, optimism and purpose to each company’s work environment and to each employee’s individual home life. To date, Successories has incorporated Dykeman’s SOAPBOX® mini-motivations into its monthly newsletter, YouTube channel and Pinterest page. The latest development with Kimberlie Dykeman Enterprises is a website section showcasing “Kimberlie Dykeman Approved” products. This new feature launches with brand new posters that were actually inspired by Successories subscribers!

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SOAPBOX® mini-motivation: one man’s perspective

Posted on July 16, 2012 by admin

“In the last analysis, what we are communicates far more eloquently than anything we say or do.” ~ Stephen Covey, author & worldwide motivator

Spoken by a man who indeed was a motivator, mentor and guiding beacon to the masses. A man who transformed the mystery of life and success of its challenges to layman basics. A man who empowered us to understand ourselves, change our habits and live with newfound perspective, dynamic purpose and unwavering optimism. In his living, he stood for that which many of us aspire to be. Knowing him and of him, may we continue to try more, do more, become more, love more and LIVE more. ~ KD

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