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SOAPBOX® mini-motivation: quel âge avez-vous?

admin — Wed, 11 Apr 2012 16:20:36 +0000

“You are as young as your faith, as old as your doubt; as young as your self-confidence, as old as your fear; as young as your hope, as old as your despair.” ~Douglas MacArthur, US General

Funny how birthdays devilishly sneak up on us. For some they are embraced with delightful dreams of frosted sweets, gifts galore and parties, parties, parties. For others (and I am in that boat for sure), the adding of another digit towards another decade doesn’t make for a happy camper. This last year seemed to not only careen past me but brought shackles of doubt, fear and despair… like I wanted to negotiate for a lower bid, after all, I’ve still got so much left to do!!! Alas, ’tis but a number, our age, right? So, those of us trying to swap our deli tickets for hope of turning back the clock… stop the madness! Embrace the potential in each day you’re given. Work on your faith, your self-confidence, your hope and understanding and the result might be longer days, longer years, and a longer life. ~KD

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SOAPBOX® mini-motivation: human being blessing

admin — Fri, 30 Mar 2012 03:49:11 +0000

“The most interesting thing in the world is another human being- who wonders, suffers and raises the questions that have bothered him to the last day of his life, knowing he will never get the answers.” ~ Will Durant, writer, historian and philosopher

Enough with the cars, computers, collectibles… and crap, folks. You can’t take any of it with you when you go. And when you’re grey and gabbing about unforgettable memories… I’ll bet the farm and Buffet’s bank account that the human beings you knew will bring the most awe-inspiring images to your stories, not the stuff.

Get to know a few more human beings… really know them. Talk like there’s no such things as things more worthy than another breath. ~KD

SOAPBOX® mini-motivation: fight or float?

admin — Fri, 09 Mar 2012 04:00:10 +0000

“Each day it seems we have a gloriously befuddling choice: battle the wind with our oars, or let it guide us with grace and fill our sails.”

~ Kimberlie Dykeman, human being

Indeed to have the breeze at our backs we must first understand the quandary. Then, of course, we must be willing to surrender…

SOAPBOX® mini-motivation: keeping it weird for love

admin — Mon, 13 Feb 2012 18:53:14 +0000

“We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness – and call it love – true love.” ~ Robert Fulghum, author

And so, as we approach le jour de l’amour …I only hope that you look beyond the obvious to see how love cannot be confined, let alone definitively defined. LOVE exists between you and another when things just ….click. Period. Think about this fabulous “weirdness” that is already living in your life… for it goes beyond you and your sweetheart or parent. It reaches uncles, cousins, friends, neighbors, mentors, coworkers… the list goes on. You know who “clicks” with you… now think of the joy, delight, peace, laughter, perspective and relief which those relationships confetti into each of your passing days.

Sure, Valentine’s Day may be just for lovers, but maybe this year you should break prescribed customs and Hallmark card categories and act a little WEIRD! Choose to tell all of those other folks who complete you on this journey called life… that you love them too! ~KD

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SOAPBOX® mini-motivation: everything happens for a reason

admin — Wed, 01 Feb 2012 19:01:18 +0000

“ You don’t lose your balance unless your life is out of balance.” ~ Arthur Smalls, jazz cat musician

Well, friends, it’s been a whole month since 2012 rang her bell with a promise to bring “change” into your lives. And so I ask, candidly…is anything different? If the answer is YES, and it’s deeper than simply a new brand of toothpaste, then I congratulate you! Keep it up! Now, if you answer NO, or have found yourself brewing in a mindbog of uncertainty, apathy, frustration or desperation, perhaps you take some time to assess your terrain to see the real culprit weeds that are tangling you up… and then reread my ditty on January 9th. Just a suggestion. ~KD

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SOAPBOX® mini-motivation: penny-pinched possibilities

admin — Mon, 23 Jan 2012 17:12:47 +0000

“Empty pockets never held anyone back. Only empty heads and empty hearts can do that.”

~ Norman Vincent Peale, minister & author

Give me an “R“! Give me an “E“! Give me an “C“!

Give me an “E“! Give me an “S“! Another “S“

…and an “I-O-N“! What’s that spell??

OPPORTUNITY!

I’m not blowing sunshine, folks. Just stating the facts. Millions upon millions of people had or have it worse than you in their financial lifetimes. Yup, the sound of two pennies rubbing together has echoed in their sensitive ears, startled their hearts, and rattled their once-unshakable foundations. Yet of those countless, there is a glowing population of do-ers who refused to let their lack of green create a life of blues.

With relentlessly determined minds and passionately beating hearts, these folks chose to believe in themselves enough to find OPPORTUNITY amidst tragedy. Opportunity disguised as spending time with family and friends, learning a new trade, receiving help from neighbors, turning a hobby into a small business, becoming disciplined and free from wants, and strengthening one’s faith.

Our country’s current reality doesn’t need to dictate, dump-on or destroy your future-perfect! Rethink what you’re doing wrong and what you could be doing right… with your mind and spirit… and your perspective can indeed change to reveal perhaps that the best damn POSSIBILITIES are right in front of you.

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SOAPBOX® mini-motivation: New Year, Same Brilliant YOU

admin — Sun, 01 Jan 2012 05:22:09 +0000

“Remember, the light at the end of the tunnel may be you.” ~ Steven Tyler, musician & wordsmith

Cheers to 2012 for all who fall upon this little ditty and drink it in with celebration! Tis just one day past yesterday, which is no different from the day before. And if it weren’t for calendars, Hallmark, and Dick Clark, January 1st would feel just the same, year after year. That is, unless you take on the aerobic challenge of changing one thing. No, not your toothpaste, nor your weight, job, bad habits, zip code, or last name. Nope. That omnipotent, omnipresent, blessed thing called your perspective.

I beckon you to sweat it out until you shift your outlook to see that YOU indeed are the light in your own life. YOU have the real answers to your questions, the solutions to your problems, and the intrinsic brilliance to your extinguish your darkness. Quick fixes, shiny new toys and winning lottery tickets are meaningless if you still think you’re your own dilemma.

So, this is my wish and prayer for you, folks. That you remove the bushel to reveal your golden glow for your own optimism and opportunity… day after week after year. Just imagine if we all took to beaming our gifts to create peace and joy with domino effect. What a world this would be. Isn’t that right, John? ~KD

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SOAPBOX® mini-motivation: pop a wheelie!

admin — Tue, 20 Dec 2011 19:35:13 +0000

“Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.” ~N.D. Walsch, author

I don’t know about you, but if this premise rings true, then many of you can identify this past year (let alone the past five!), as a time in which you have truly lived. It seems that as we careen forward into our collective 21^st century future, our boundaries of ease, familiarity and honest-to-goodness comfort are severely truncated, causing us to freak out, freeze up, fumble, fail and fight back tears.

Proudly acknowledge though that you have also strived and survived the confounded labyrinth of potholes and prop doors. And with mosaic-ed prayer and possibility in hand, you have deciphered the message to unfold an irrefutably timeless and timely fact: Training wheels are meant to be taken off.

So, as I take my place at the helm of this little ditty, I say, “Comfort, shmomfort.” Roll up your sleeves, toss on a helmet, kick up the stand, and pop a wheelie down the open road of adventure. Start the coming blessed year with the wind in your face and your hair on fire and see where the journey takes you! ~ KD

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SOAPBOX® mini-motivation: true Christmas spirit

admin — Thu, 15 Dec 2011 19:04:40 +0000

“He who has not Christmas in his heart will never find it under a tree.” ~Roy L. Smith, author

I think that says it all, no?

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SOAPBOX® mini-motivation: the game of greed

admin — Mon, 05 Dec 2011 17:27:46 +0000

Tis the season for shopping til you’re blue in the face (or until someone pepper sprays you!)… stockpiling your baskets and SUVs with stuff many of you really cannot afford , let alone even need… and, ultimately, stuffing away your Grinch-like feelings of greed and receipt-laden guilt. But who’s to blame for your frenzied, Black Friday addictive actions?

“Society drives people crazy with lust and calls it advertising.” – John Lahr, drama critic

Surely not the scheming stores and malevolent marketing execs… for YOU bought into the game again! YOU drove yourself to the store at 3AM! YOU are still trying to top last year’s gift giving. YOU still have your priorities out of whack. Yup, I said it.

Remember: too much will always be too much. And the goods ain’t so good if they only bring out the bad in us. ~ KD

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